In six short weeks I can help you get you started with all the tools you need to get past the defensiveness and begin communicating in a way that results in reconnection and rekindling of your passion for each other.
Every relationship has predictable stages.
Relationships usually start out great in the romantic stage, but soon move into the power struggle stage. Half of all marriages fail, and most fail at this point. Conflicts during this time are normal, and most people just need a little help getting through this power struggle stage into the mature love stage.