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Relationship Resources is the website for relationship coach, Chuck Starnes (that’s me:-)
If you feel stuck in your marriage, here are TONS OF FREE RESOURCES that can help!
Also my programs provide powerful tools that can help you reconnect and rekindle the passion and romance in your relationship.
I’ve been using Imago Relationship Therapy to help couples for more than 20 years.
My office is in the heart of Silicon Valley (San Jose CA USA), but I do lots of coaching on Skype (actually I use Zoom but you get the idea).
So wherever you are, I’d love to connect with you.
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About 35% of all marriage fail and only 10% report having a truly satisfactory marriage. Some couples are trapped in a “silent divorce”. Others settle for a “parallel marriage” where most of their needs are being met outside the relationship.
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3 steps to getting past the all the blaming and defensiveness.
My business is finding marriage tools that work! So why, after so many years, do these tools not work for some people? Well, the answer
When we overreact to something our partner says or does, we kill any chance of connecting with them. The logic goes like this: The connection
It’s true! You can resolve every single frustration you have in your marriage…if you understand this one important reality: Behind every frustration is a wish.
So many couples are staying together in an unhappy marriage. When you ask how they’re doing, they’ll say, “OK”. That’s code for “I’ve settled”. In
Talking is only one part of the communication process in marriage. Real communication happens when we listen too. Duh? Really? I kind of knew that.
Gratitude will transform your marriage! And here’s a powerful tool that can make that happen! Believe it or not, one drop of negativity pollutes the
Is your marriage stuck in a vicious cycle of blaming and defensiveness? Here’s why that happens, and what to do about it. Marriages get stuck
Is your marriage relationship being sabotaged by outbursts of anger and overreaction? Does your own reaction drive you to pull away from your partner, causing
What happens to my marriage if I choose to be “nice” rather than honest? …if I go “silent” rather than confront an issue head on?
I’m not talking about moving out. I’m talking about taking seemingly innocent “exits” that rob your relationship. “Exits” are places where you go to get
If you find yourself arguing about the same things over and over again you’re probably not focused on what you really need to be talking
Marriage is supposed to be two people becoming one. Right? Two people striving for “mutual purpose” in their life together. But for us it was
“My husband’s destructive anger is wrecking our family! I can’t deal with his abuse any longer!” Tears filled Gina’s eyes as she explained what her
I was that husband avoiding conflict! Here are three powerful insights that helped me stop avoiding conflict, and start engaging in a way that led
This was our story! But we learned that with the right skills you can turn a marriage with conflicts into a relationship with a deeper
Does an affair mean the end of my relationship? Betrayal runs deep. Can I ever recover from this infidelity? Here are five steps that I’ve
Every marriage needs work. But what happens when a relationship goes flat and one partner is not willing to work on it? Is there hope
Marriage incompatibility can be transformed into an intimate partnership for healing and growth! Ever feel like you’re married to the most incompatible person on the
Wendy and Tom’s relationship was as passionate as it gets. At least it started out that way. When they were dating, they were crazy in
Couples fight for one fundamental reason: they bring their childhood defenses into their relationship. The way you learned to adapt and survive in childhood can
What if you could transform your sexless marriage into one where you “make love” all the time? “Not possible, Chuck!” But it IS possible, when
Perplexed about problems in your marriage? Looking for solutions? “I didn’t know we had marriage troubles, but then, without any warning, she left!” “I felt a
Are you tired of angry outbursts and walking on eggshells in your relationship? Are conflicts keeping you from the closeness you want? Here is a
Marriage conflict is not only normal, it opens the door to your healing and wholeness! Today’s relationship experts tell us that compatibility with your partner
With 25-35% of all marriages ending in divorce, and only 10% report having a truly fulfilling relationship, is there a way to reverse this dismal
Has your relationship has lost some of it’s sizzle? Or worse yet, do you feel like the flame in your relationship is about to go