Many couples who are stuck in their relationship can experience a breakthrough and make tremendous progress in just six weeks. With the tools you learn during the six online sessions, combined with the intensive work you do during the week on your own, a reconnection in the relationship can occur that reduces anxiety and lowers defenses. This becomes a context where the tools you've learned can become part of your lifestyle as a couple. After six weeks the work doesn't stop, but the foundation is laid for you to enter the stage of mature love and build a great life together. ​Here is what we will cover in The Six-Week Starter Program:

Cost: $900 for six sessions

The Six-Week Starter Program

*To apply is to explore whether this program is right for you and does not commit you to any financial obligation. Only after you have talked with me and we have confirmed that this is the best path for you and have scheduled your six sessions will you be billed for the program.


WEEK 1​ - RECONNECTING EMOTIONALLY 

  • Communication that leads to connection

  • Boundaries that help you protect or reestablish your identity
  • Understanding the emotions behind the hurtful words
  • The power of your partner's love language
  • Closing the "exits" that rob your relationship

  • Introduction to "The Appointment" and to "The Unconscious Relationship Agenda"

 

WEEK 2 - RECONNECTING EMOTIONALLY (continued)

  • Understanding your "unconscious relationship agenda" for healing and wholeness

  • Understanding the "90/10 principle" and the childhood wounds and defense mechanisms sabotaging your relationship​

  • Understanding why you chose your partner and how conflict is a sign that you chose the right person (compatibility is the recipe for boredom and conflict is the recipe for an exciting relationship)

  • Learning who is the "hailstorm" and who is the "turtle" and how each one finds healing and growth

  • Sustaining communication that leads to connection

  • Introduction to the "Four Critical Moments Of Each Day"

 

WEEK 3 - REKINDLING ROMANTIC LOVE

  • Using the four critical moments to rekindle romance and make your relationship a safe place

  • Understanding the Law of Responsibility and The Law of Sowing and Reaping

  • Learning to ask for gifts that make you feel loved

  • Sustaining communication that leads to connection

  • Introduction to the the "Rekindling Exercise"

 

WEEK 4 - REKINDLING ROMANTIC LOVE (continued)

  • Communicating what you want in order to get the love you need

  • ​Change requests that bring healing (of childhood wounds) in one parter, and growth (changing hurtful coping strategies) in the other partner

  • Deepening the emotional connection that creates a mutual desire for more physical intimacy​

  • Introduction to the "Relationship Vision"

 

WEEK 5 - RE-ENVISIONING YOUR RELATIONSHIP 

  • Building your relationship vision together

  • Establishing a lifelong partnership for healing and growth and fulfilling your dreams together

  • Applying what you learned in marriage to your relationships with your children, family and the workplace

  • Continuing the change requests that bring healing and growth

 

WEEK 6 - RE-ENVISIONING YOUR RELATIONSHIP (continued)

  • Moving from Reconnecting and Rekindling to Re-envisioning your relationship

  • Making all your new relationship tools a lifestyle rather than just exercises

  • Continuing change requests that bring healing and growth

  • Building a partnership where you fulfill all your dreams together and make the world a better place​