Here is a collection of stories and lessons drawn from my experience with couples.

Marriage communication that leads to connection

In the video above, Rob and Janet’s story shows how communication in itself is not enough. They show us how the key to a happy marriage is communication that leads to connection.

How to break the cycle of blaming and defensiveness

Some marriages get stuck in a brutal cycle of blaming and defensiveness. In this brief video I talk about why this happens and how to break out of this painful place.

How to turn marriage conflicts into healing and growth opportunities

Most of us see conflicts in our marriage as bad. But did you know that conflicts can bring us to new levels of healing and growth we would never experience otherwise? In the video above the story of Mario and Rosa shows us how to turn marriage conflicts into healing and growth opportunities.